My dad gave me this advice after he found out I had a boyfriend in high school (I was 16).
He wasn't mad that I had one, just disapprove of it.
He said,
"I'm not saying you shouldn't experience these things, but, the higher education you go, the more people you'll meet, more great men you can choose from. Don't waste your time with things like relationships at a young age."
I have to say, I agree and disagree though.
But, what I agreed on was, if I am focus on what I'm passionate about, I'll find someone within the same range as I am.
It's not about, who's stupid or who's better, it's about, who's worth it..
Frankly, I'm not the smartest one in a bunch, but, I had time and space to see other things than relationships. And within that time, my husband and I found each other while pursuing our passion. That's how I like it. It's not blindly love and lust, it's passion and interest as well.
Thank you for that piece of mind, Ayah.
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