Showing posts with label parenthood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenthood. Show all posts

Friday, April 27, 2018

MikaOne


My baby boy turns 1!

Can't believe it has been a year already.
Things went up and down for sure,
but overall, I think it mostly went up for us new parents.

Seeing this human being that we managed to bring out into the world,
to feed, nurture, play and share many things,
is both sad yet beautiful experience,
for every blink, every hug, every snuggle, and tickle,
he grows,
stronger, braver and independent.

it aches my heart,
as much as it makes me glad to see him advancing.
I quit my job, to be a full-time SAHM,
just so I don't miss out any of his milestones.

He learned to salam, to wave bye-bye, to snuggle when asked.
He makes more expressions and impressions.
He has teeth now, and he grins wider than ever.

My baby boy, even when you're 10, 20, 40 or even 75.
I'll always remember you as a wee little boy,
grinning ever so wide, so carefree and full of love.



Ibu and Babah loves you so much.
Mueez and Mateen, too.




p.s: Ibu nak nangis typing blog entry ni.
Tapi babah kaw ni, kuat sgt lak dia gelak2 main GTAv dgn Pak Ngah Rezza kaw... spoil... 

Monday, March 12, 2018

New SAHM Schedule (weekdays)

8.30am
Pretending to be sleeping while my son whines in this cot,
trying to wake me up.


approx. 8.45 - 9am
Wake up and Breakfast for Mika (with Storybots on TV)
Make Breakfast for Hubster, for work

10am
Bath time for Mika
Morning Playtime

11am
Mika's susu and naptime

11.30am
Ibu shower / Watch TV

approx. 12pm
Mika up from nap
Afternoon Playtime

1pm
Send Mika to nursery
Grocery shopping

approx. 2pm
Clean house:
Vacuum / Mop / Wash toilet / Laundry
or
Freelance job (if any)
or
Do nothing / Netflix and chill / Play PS4

5.30
Start to cook dinner

7pm
Pick up Mika from nursery

8pm
Mika's dinner
Hubby back from work

9pm
A little bit of night playtime

9.30pm
Mika's susu and bedtime

10pm
Clean up after:
wash dishes and bottles / Mika's dinner mess

11pm
Ibu's chill time

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Approx. 6-7am
Mika wakes up for susu 
and continue to sleep

Monday, May 15, 2017

High Blood Pressure

The back story of me giving birth to our son...

The due date was 6th May 2017, so my hubby and I figured we still have a week to go before giving birth. Atleast, 1st May lah.. not so soon.

Over that time, I was so stressing out with my workload, that I didn't get enough rest or leisure. So, by the time I was done with everything, I got up and get ready for my FINAL medical check up. Which was funny that coincidentally, this very 1st time, hubby wasn't able to accompany me to the hospital, to which I called my dad to asked if he's willing to accompany me instead.

All this while, throughout all the check ups I did with hubby, everything was normal, healthy and accordingly. BUT, this particular time, just this one time with my dad, EVERYTHING WENT WRONG! Low amniotic fluid and high blood pressure, to which the doctor quickly suggest me to admit that very day!

High blood pressure due to overworked, stress and not enough sleep. Terus terang cakap, memang salah MCMC event. no cover ups, ok!

My dad and Lily called hubby and told him everything. Hubby ditched his work and called me. I was crying hard and felt so guilty towards my baby. I kept apologizing, and also blamed my workload. Hubby was shaken. He drove straight to the hospital.

My dad confronted us, asking for our decision. We decided to just admit to the hospital. No more delaying.

***

The doctor gave me induce pills 3 times to force contractions, but I just wasn't feeling it. We slept one night at the hospital, hoping the contractions would come.

During that night, I wasn't able to sleep at all. Just that one night, I heard 2 women gave birth. One was screaming, one was having a hard time pushing. But both gave birth well. But it was scary for me. Every time I heard them, I'd call my hubby from the other bed, to come over and held his hands tight. He was trying hard to comfort me.

About 6 am, the doctor came in and asked if I was feeling anything. I felt nothing. She then gave me, the last option, inserting half pill into my cervix. If there's still no reaction, she told me, I might have to go under c-sec.

Just within half hour, STRONG CONTRACTIONS CAME! OMG! IT WAS SURPRISING PAINFUL. By 8 am, it was unbearable, I was sent to the labour room. My hubby, Lily and my dad were around. After almost 4 hours, I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy! Right after my baby's out and crying, hubby cried so hard. He was glad it was over. You were very supportive Cayang. You are a great husband and father.

And that's how my birth story went. Yeay!


Welcome to the World, my son


Name:
Mohamad Mika Uthman bin Mohamad Taufik Hidayat

Birth date:
27 April 2017

Time:
11.50am

Weight:
2.7kg

Sex:
Boy

Sign:
Taurus

Year:
Rooster

Our precious son 



Wednesday, January 4, 2017

That slight bump

Just wanna record,

4th January 2017
11:28pm

Your dad felt your kicks for the first time. :)
His reaction? "Damn...."

I love you both very much. <3 p="">

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