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Monday, July 11, 2011

Being a Wife

im a woman.
as usual, evry woman dreamed of getting married,
whether its before or after love.

but the Question is,
what are you going to be after getting married?
of course, a wife.
but, what kind of wife?

for me, i hv my own dream on how to be a wife.
a good wife that my future hubby will never regret marrying to.

i wanna be the type of wife that:

#1
stay home and bake cakes and cookies.

#2
cook breakfast, lunch and dinner.

#3
make bentos for our kids and hubby everyday.

#4
take freelance job as an illustrator or a cartoonist.
(work at home)

#5
do housechores
(dreamhome: small and comfy, cottage like, with small garden)

#6
teaches our kids arts, to draw and to paint.

#7
greets hubby with a smile when he comes home.
(and serve tea or juice)

#8
show love to hubby and kids evryday b4 the leave home.
(for work or school)

#9
look beautiful evryday, only for dearest hubby to see.

#10
learn new recipes to cook.

#11
avoid major arguments, in fear of divorce.
(divorce is out of the Question, nvr to bring it up, stay loyal)

#12
supports hubby whenever he's in trouble.

yup... typical house wife, but these are what i wish to be in the future.
A HouseWife.

People said that being a housewife is rather hard and impossible in this modern era,
but to think,
satisfying the one man,
that Allah made for you and the one who worked hard to feed and care for you,
taking care of his children that he's proud of, 
the children that utter sweet love for you,
Allah will pay for all the love you gave them, 
no Question or argument about it.

its a long term thing,
but i bet,
it will all be worth it... :)

i'll be like this, Insya Allah.

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